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Minimize interruptions by alerting other household members or business
associates of your need for a specific time of uninterrupted quiet and
privacy. |
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If you have
call waiting, simply dial *70 before placing your call
to me. Call waiting will then be deactivated only for the number you
dial next. (If *70 does not work, check your area for the code to
deactivate your call waiting.) |
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Placing a "Do Not Disturb" sign on your outer door may detour
unexpected visitors. |
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If privacy is a problem, some creative alternatives might include
using your portable phone outside or in another area of the
home. |
Regardless of the type of phone you use, I recommend using a headset, if possible. Most phones today including cellular phones come equipped with a jack for plugging one in.
If you do not have a headset, generally a good
quality one can be purchased for around $30-$40 from any electronics store
such as Radio Shack, CompUSA, Circuit City, etc.
Another
possibility is using a speakerphone.
If none of these options work for you, consider relaxing on
your bed, couch, recliner, or other comfortable chair and using pillows to
create a support for your phone receiver.
There are three main reasons for having your hands free. One is simple comfort. Another is so that you can comfortably take notes when appropriate or desired.
In addition, if you are doing any
visualization type exercises such as goal setting, by having your hands
free, you can be much more relaxed and effectively engaged in the process
of internal focusing.
Some of the applications we may use could include altered states of consciousness work.
This is simply a matter of closing your eyes, leaning
back, and going within where you will be guided into opening that channel
of communication with your own unconscious or subconscious mind.
The value of this kind of work is that imagination is the tool for communicating,
reprogramming, editing, and releasing old unconscious behaviours, old
blocks, old out-dated negative or limiting beliefs, and unwanted attitudes
that are stuck at the deeper level.
While in this powerful meditative
state, physical comfort with the hands free promotes a more successful
outcome.
Sit
up or lie down?
Deciding whether to sit or lie down depends on a couple of factors. A recliner is ideal; however, stretching out on a bed, couch, floor, mat, or the beach in comfortable weather, is quite acceptable.
On the other hand, if you are very tired and have a
tendency to drop off to sleep, it may be better to sit up.
If you decide to sit, a reclining chair can provide the most comfort. If you sit erect, it is important that your spine is straight and your head is balanced over your body.
Otherwise, arrange pillows or other support for your
head and neck if you decide to lean back in a chair or on a couch.
Have handy . . .
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Paper and a pen
for notes or other assignments. | |
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A glass of water. If we are the least bit dehydrated--and often we are unaware of it--we can enter a state of what I call, "Polarity Reversal." |
Polarity
Reversal (PR) is when:
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Our
coordination may be off or we may feel awkward, | |
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We
might be stumbling about or our timing is off, | |
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Confusion
prevails, | |
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We tend
to drop things, | |
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We
become forgetful, | |
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We lose
things, | |
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We feel
anxious or restless, | |
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We are
talking non-stop as a way to avoid dealing with an issue, | |
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We feel
irritable or grumpy, | |
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When
taking notes, our letters or numbers are reversed, | |
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Nothing seems to be working including life coaching/holistic counseling! |
When this condition occurs, take a deep breath, and then take a drink of water!
Note:
Other liquid beverages will not bring about the same result of putting you
back into balance.
We may find ourselves in and out of this state much of the time. Some things that will put us into the "Polarity Reversal" state are, for example, a co-worker tells us in a rather ominous tone of voice that the boss wants to see us, or someone gives us a hard time, or we are remembering an unpleasant event, and so on.
There are
many simple ways to get back into balance. One, of course, is taking that
drink of water. Another more spontaneous way is when someone gives us a
"warm fuzzy" or compliment, or when we put ourselves in a good
mood by doing or thinking of something pleasant or fun.
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If you decide to do your phone work indoors, avoid lighting that
might glare in your eyes. Some clients like to burn candles or
dim the lights. | |
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Check to see if the
air temperature is comfortable. Adjust it, if
needed. | |
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If you enjoy
burning incense, or scented candles, then do so. | |
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Some clients find the sound of a circulating water fountain to be
soothing. | |
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Playing soft music or environmental ocean or country sounds in
the background is another idea. |
By taking the time to create your own sacred space during each call, you will begin to associate it with achieving profound and exciting results.
Use your imagination to create or find an environment that feels good, and contributes the most to your personal success.
Traditional psychotherapy only has a 20 percent success rate. I have a 92 percent success rate, and over 33 years experience.
Does personal growth and prosperity coaching or holistic counseling by phone really work?
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