How to Tell if You are
A Case Study
Jack had dreams
of becoming a very successful businessman. He really liked his job as a
copy editor with a publishing company.
The problem was
that Jack had received messages throughout his childhood from his family
that he was bad; that he didn’t deserve to have what he wanted; that he
was clumsy, stupid and dumb; that he couldn’t do anything right, and that
he would never amount to anything.
Because he had internalized all those negative messages he got
as a child, there was a deeper, inner, unconscious part of him that
now believed them to be true for him.
time he would strive for advancement, raise in pay, or promotion, he would
unconsciously do something to sabotage himself from moving ahead in his
Some of the
things he would do was to make a lot of "stupid" mistakes; sometimes he
would complain about working conditions without offering possible
solutions, and he really didn’t get along very well with some of his
Jack, because of getting some
"BLOCK BUSTING" Life Coaching & Alternative/Holistic Counseling done with
me is now word-crafting his first book. He has already gotten an
advance on it and is now in love with life–his life.
He has also evolved into being a much sought after employee at his
publishing company job, which he hopes to eventually replace with
The Anatomy of a
AN EMOTIONAL STUMBLING BLOCK is something
that obstructs; an obstacle. In the case of moving
forward in one’s life, a STUMBLING BLOCK is an emotional obstruction usually
resulting in a LIMITING BELIEF or LIMITING DECISION that hinders or prevents one from achieving
a consciously desired outcome such as a positive accomplishment.
and LIMITING BELIEFS operate largely at the unconscious or subconscious
level. That is why they cannot be simply released with conscious will.
The structure of a STUMBLING BLOCK is made up of negative emotions such as anger,
sadness, fear, pain, and/or guilt. Fear tends to be a predominating force
or BLOCK for most people who want to get on with their lives. I
believe that all emotions are positive at the time of need, however.
Imagine, for a
moment, that you are walking across the street at an
intersection when suddenly a big truck comes careening around the corner.
Now, if you don’t get scared and jump out of the way, you will be run
Getting scared is positive—it can save your life!
Now imagine that the fear does not go away after that event. In fact,
it turns into something so negative that, from that time on, every time
you see a truck, it causes you to startle and jump. Maybe you cannot even
drive on freeways because of all the big trucks out there!
Where this condition now becomes a serious obstacle is if, for
example, you have always loved vacationing by car, or your job requires a
lot of driving—only now, you are no longer able to enjoy traveling by
car because of your nightmarish and irrational fear of trucks.
Some Clues to
How do you know if you have
any STUMBLING BLOCKS? Some symptoms of having
BLOCKS are a tendency toward procrastination and feeling conflicted.
you chronically put off doing some task, or you’ve tried everything
to change an unwanted behavior, and nothing has worked, then you are STUCK
or BLOCKED. Fears and beliefs that you can’t
do/have/accomplish or get over something are emotional BLOCKS!
overwhelming fear of public speaking; believing that you just
can’t get organized/do math/have unbelievable prosperity/balance your
checkbook/have an adventure/experience a fulfilling relationship/start a
business/meditate, and so on, are all evidence of STUMBLING BLOCKS.
There may be some things that you simply have no interest in doing such as
planting and tending a garden.
You may rather be spending your time in
spiritual pursuits/study/crafts or world travel.
are what get in the way when you want to accomplish something
and you find yourself not able to reach your desired outcomes.
produces a conflict. Part of you wants to take some action toward a goal;
another part of you gets in the way.
Another illustration of being
BLOCKED with fear is that of Joan.
wanted. more than anything, to become a better partner to her live-in lover
but her jealous rages created an ever-widening gulf between them. She also
wanted to further her career as a musician.
Joan had tried
everything. She had tried seeing a psychiatrist—, which didn’t seem
to really help much at all. She had read tons of self-help books and
listened to many self-help cassette tapes and CDs; she had tried counting
to 10 before angrily expressing her paralyzing fear and misery to her
lover; she even tried using will power to make herself stop being so
As long as she
was so emotionally immobilized with BLOCKS, her relationship was in
jeopardy, and she was unable to move forward with her life plan. She had a
STUMBLING BLOCK as big as a house, and knew it!
Using my system,
she quickly and easily identified the cause of the BLOCK. In this case, she was modeling her mother’s behavior toward her father who
did have a tendency to wander.
She was then able to re-design and re-define
her response to her lover—who was faithful. This was through a simple
process of releasing the unwanted actions, and reprogramming her
unconscious mind for a permanent and positive change.
using some newly developed techniques involving the
simple application of quantum physics combined with elements from ancient
Through a sophisticated form of guided imagery and
performing some quick action energy releases, she was able to achieve freedom
of choice rather than being a victim of her unconscious reactions.
Today, Joan is an acclaimed
musician. She also feels incredible inner
security. She now enjoys a mutually rewarding and exciting relationship
with her significant other.Every time you
you find it again!
of mine was Evelyn, a robust 40-something-year-old who had been yo-yo
dieting for years. She was discouraged and miserable. Her health was
beginning to suffer which was affecting her work as a massage therapist.
Her self-image was very poor.
She wanted so
much to regain the slenderness she had enjoyed as a younger woman, but
nothing seemed to work, or if it did, it didn’t last. She really didn’t
have a clinical eating disorder. She simply ate too much sometimes
We approached her conflict as
containing many different STUMBLING BLOCKS. We were
able to identify them easily through a comprehensive and thorough
questionnaire and intense interviewing.
This was followed by easily
releasing each STUMBLING BLOCK and turning them into BUILDING BLOCKS through energy work and mental reprogramming.
is now nearing her goal of becoming slim and healthy. This was all
accomplished without dieting, using will power, counting calories,
taking pills or other supplements, making big changes in what she ate, or
joining an exercise program.
The weight came
off slowly (as it should for lasting results)—a pound at a time—without
any big changes in her other than the positive benefits she so
thoroughly enjoys now such as shopping for new and smaller size clothes.
She continues to
maintain her ongoing weight reduction easily. She has the self-use energy
tools I taught her. This way, she can deal with anything that
might later surface that could potentially undermine or interfere with her
It's time to take
a magical journey!
Ask yourself ...
Am I bouncing off of "old
messages" and LIMITING BELIEFS or LIMITING DECISIONS?
● Are these "old
messages" and LIMITING BELIEFS BLOCKING me from realizing my goals, dreams,
purpose, and mission in life?
my self-esteem low on the scale of total self-acceptance without
● Is my personal growth lagging behind in some areas of my life?
Did you answer
"yes" to one or more of these questions? Then it's time to begin your
magical journey of self-discovery and spiritual self-actualization through
balance and abundance in mind and body health, wealth, prosperity, and
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